In the 1980’s we had an elderly couple that worshipped with us at Northwest, B.L. and Clara White. Bro. White was a retired gospel preacher, and in visiting with them through the years we discovered that Sandra’s great uncle, C.D. Record who was a circuit preacher, baptized Clara when she was twelve. Sandra and I have a number of good memories of this godly couple, and one of those memories is something Bro. White prayed in his public prayers for us. That request is the title of this article.
Death is not something that we necessarily think about too much. But the Bible has a lot to say about this subject, including an explanation that death is a result of sin entering the world. In Genesis 2:17 God provided this warning about eating from the forbidden tree: “…for in the day that you eat from it, you will surely die.” In Genesis 5 God appears to have provided a stark reminder for us of this penalty for sin. It records the death of Adam and eight of his descendants with the phrase that’s repeated for each one, “…and he died.” The lone exception is in v 24 where it says regarding Enoch, “…God took him.”
Since none of us can count on Enoch’s experience, we may have some fear of death at some time in our life. It’s the unknown and an experience we have but once, and no one can tell us what it will be like. However, we can be comforted by something Jesus reveals to us about what happens at death. In Luke 16:22 in the story of Lazarus and the rich man, Jesus says Lazarus, “…was carried away by the angels to Abraham’s bosom.” This refers to his soul that’s pictured as being carried to a place of comfort (v 25). This is because the story shows the extreme contrast between the life of Lazarus, a beggar and “covered with sores,” (v 20) and the rich man, who lived a life of extravagance every day (v 19). In death Lazarus finally received the comfort he didn’t have on earth, and the rich man received just the opposite. God does not abandon us when we die, but provides transport for our soul to the reward and comfort we so desire.
I read the story of a brother in Christ who was very sick and was visited by a close friend. The friend jokingly asked if he was still in the world of the living. He said, “No, I am in the world of the dying, but it won’t be long before I’ll be in the world of the living.” What a great reminder for us that what happens to us at death is what we strive for. This “world of the dying” reminds us over and over of the pain of separation that death brings in this life. I attended a funeral where a poem was read that reflects this pain and begins, “When tomorrow starts without me and I’m not there to see, if the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me. I wish so much you wouldn’t cry the way you did today, while thinking of the many things we didn’t get to say.”
Although Bro. White’s prayer is a comforting thought, there is really only one thing that makes any difference when we die. What matters most is whether we’re saved or lost, whether the life we lived was godly or ungodly, whether we lived for righteousness or unrighteousness, whether we died in Christ or out of Christ.
I believe Bro. White was praying that we all be spared a violent or painful death. He died of pancreatic cancer in the care of Hospice, whose goal would have been to keep him comfortable. I can think of some pretty tragic and painful ways to die, as Jesus did on the cross, or at the opposite extreme, to die in your sleep. But just as Bro. White prayed, I also pray for us, “a quiet hour in which to quit the walks of men.” But more importantly I pray we will all be faithful until death, and experience the angels carrying us so we can, “… depart and be with Christ,” (Phil 1:23), where loved ones are no longer separated by death, and we can experience eternal joy and comfort.
Wes Scarborough